I was traveling for work, he bought cards, printed a letter with pictures, signed it from both of us and sent it

Save the date” cards had been sent out six months prior, but we were apparently lower on their priority list. I expressed to my husband my desire to not send holiday cards this year because I no longer feel good about these family members.

"I expressed to my husband my desire to not send holiday cards this year because I no longer feel good about these family members."

Dear Abby, after several of my husband's relatives didn't attend our daughter's wedding, I decided to snub them with no cards this holiday, but my husband went behind my back and sent them cards anyway.

Several members of my husband’s family let us down badly by not attending our daughter’s wedding. They had various work and other family obligations near the date of

Several members of my husband’s family let us down badly by not attending our daughter’s wedding. They had various work and other family obligations near the date of our event. “Save the Date” cards had been sent out six months prior,